Meet Neshama Alheem
Founder of The Self-Love Church | Leadership Alignment Strategist
You’ve been everything for everyone else. But have you been that for yourself?
The Self-Love Church is a community for people who are ready to start choosing themselves — not just sometimes, but as a way of life.
If you know you've been missing alignment, peace, and a deeper relationship with yourself, this is where it begins.
It's time to #ChooseYou and #ChooseYourBestLife!
Most of us were taught to “be nice” — to serve, to offer support, even give your last…
We were taught everything but how to prioritize ourselves.
And let's not talk about the “suffering in silence” we all do.
So we move through life performing strength. Trying to push through and hold it all together.
But living like this has its consequences. We start disconnecting from our own needs, our own voice, and our own boundaries.
That’s why self-love here isn’t that “woo-woo” surface-level stuff that's out there. It’s not spa days and bubble baths (even though we like those!). It's not randomly repeating affirmations and hoping for a change.
It's intentional. It's about being true to who you really are and the desires you have for yourself, not what you think is expected of you.
Through the teachings inside The Self-Love Church — including my MAP and AWDREC frameworks — we practice self-love in a practical way that includes all aspects of our lives — personal, relationships, and even career.
It's time to do something different and truly understand and pour into yourself.
Start choosing you on purpose.
Short Bio
Neshama Alheem is the Founder of The Self-Love Church and a Leadership Alignment Strategist, speaker, and author. For over two decades, she has helped people strengthen their clarity, self-trust, and personal alignment in ways that help them create the life they know they deserve.
She is a featured co-author of We Are Women of Substance: Confident and On the Move and the author of additional books and journals focused on self-leadership and personal growth. Through her teachings, tools, and frameworks (including MAP and AWDREC) she equips individuals with real ways that make sense to live out self-love daily.
She regularly speaks at conferences and community gatherings, sharing the message that Choosing YOUrself isn’t selfish or option — it's a must.
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Qualifications, Facts, & “Receipts”
These experiences and “fun facts” make Neshama uniquely who she is and is reflected in the way she works with those in her community. Whether speaking, writing new books, officiating sacred ceremonies, or hosting transformational gatherings, Neshama brings her ENTIRE self into every space she's called to lead.
Began teaching, mentoring, and leading in faith-based and community spaces in the early 2000s
Served as Minister of Christian Education, building out a full church education program and curriculum from the ground up
Former Minister of Music at multiple churches, leading choirs and worship teams
Creator of structured self-love workshops, courses, and teachings that help members practice self-love in practical, everyday ways
Published author of We Are Women of Substance: Confident & On the Move and additional books and journals on self-leadership and personal growth Explore Her Books Here
An ordained Interfaith Minister who performs a number of weddings and other sacred ceremonies each year
Founded The Self-Love Church in 2021, which is currently an online community promoting greater self-love, embracing personal power, and walking in your inherent Divinity
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